Grief from relationship loss, health loss
or traumatic bereavement is complex to navigate.
Reclaim your motivation to help your family
and you live your best possible life
with my stages of hope.
Professional support for you or your family through life's challenges of loss, terminal illness, and grief.
Healing broken hearts through spiritual growth
I provide a professional service offering expertise, guidance and innovative thinking for personal growth and expanded awareness using the S.T.E.E.R. approach.
(Please note, this is not a chartitable organization offering a limited free service.)
Psychotherapist, Speaker, Trainer, Group Facilitator, Therapy Supervisor
Providing Online Services For:
Loss and Trauma
From separation / divorce, narcissistic abuse, near-death experiences and more
Terminal Illness
Consultant for caregivers and patient support from terminal diagnosis to end-of-life
Bereavement Grief
My unique signature approach to release your suffering quickly
Specialization: Medical Trauma| Child Loss/Childhood Grief | Suicide Prevention| Spiritual/Faith Crisis
Providing Online Services To Support:

Individuals
For Adolescents (13+) and Adults who want to their process trauma
Personalised sessions to overcome your blocks from trauma, loss & grief challenges.

Families
To help stop destructive patterns & to experience re-connection again
Talk and listen differently to hear alternative perspectives to repair relationships and bond.

Community Membership
For connection with strangers who become understanding friends
Meet others for empathic support and additional coping ideas so you don't feel so isolated and alone.

Training & Supervision
Training and clinical supervision for grief counsellors / therapists
Upskill with the latest research and wellness tools to better serve your employees or clients.
"I was stunned at how much family therapy helped us deal with our losses." >>> Click here to read the rest
Claire FamilyYou deserve to live a fulfilling life
without being held back by anxiety, trauma or grief
Download your free guide today...

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Are you weathering any of these storms?
- health challenges / End-of-life (e.g. cancer, dementia, MND)
- stuck grief due to traumatic / tragic circumstances (e.g. overdose, suicide)
- suicidal thoughts after the death of a child / spouse / close friend
- relationship wounds (e.g. betrayal or estrangement)
- feeling disconnected with your child, or your own voice
- loss due to a family / work conflict or narcissism
These types of loss can cause profound sadness and grief.
These are my specialisms that can help guide you through.

Specialisms:
- children / teens issues
- tragic, untimely deaths (children, cancer)
- spousal loss, which can be complex
- vocal & communication coaching for loss of confidence
- parenting coaching through grief or divorce
- spiritual coaching and unusual spiritual experiences
Your grief from loss is precious and it deserves to be expressed and
processed with someone who understands the complexity of the grief journey.
Have you tried alternative support that uses only one approach
which you have found ineffective?
S.T.E.E.R your way through grief with a guide by your side
to see what you've never seen before.
Using a unique multi- perspective approach personalized to your values and needs…
Because grief is an all-consuming ‘body, mind, spirit’ experience that requires a fully integrated approach.
Let’s work together to find an effective way to release painful feelings
of trauma and loss so you can feel uplifted and alive again.
When Will I Feel Better?
The passing of time is not enough to bring healing and wholeness.
It takes dedicated time to intentionally process it.
Starting early to avoid ill health is a wise investment in your personal growth.
Accept
6-Weeks Growth Experience
*****
Free yourself from emotional suffering
so that you are able to concentrate again
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Weekly sessions to come to a place of acceptance and peace without the guilt
Adjust
3-Month Growth Experience
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Navigate through the overwhelm
to function optimally again
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Weekly sessions to learn how to manage your grief appropriately in each context
Adapt
5-Month Growth Experience
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Grow into a higher level of awareness, personal development and confidence
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Weekly or fortnightly sessions to discover your purpose, vitality and voice
Lean into the process to find your courage - and feel uplifted.
Let's discuss charting your course to find the best path for you.
Taking you further than you can go on your own...
- Reduce guilt, addictions, suicidal thoughts, the risk of divorce, or family estrangement
- Gain the ability to identify and convey your needs to improve your relationships
- Understand how your habitual beliefs might be limiting you and holding you back
- Develop emotional courage to bounce back and (re)build a fulfilling life
- Remember your departed and their passing with more love and lightness rather than pain
Helping you feel better than before.

What's different about me?
Hi, I’m Santou. I’m an Advanced Grief & Trauma Specialist in private practice. My calling as a Servant Leader to guide people with trauma, anxiety, loss & grief began 25 years ago.
My mission is to help sustain people move through the stages of hope on their loss and grief journey. I serve as a traumatic grief therapist, community healthcare chaplain, certified grief educator and coach, an international speaker and published writer. I can help guide you through the transitional stages of your life’s journey from loss to re-connection, so you can live a full life with hope.
I do this using a unique multi-disciplinary approach bridging psychotherapy, cultural knowledge, spirituality, theology and research.
No matter your faith, religious denomination, or cultural beliefs, my approach is all-inclusive. I welcome those who might have become disillusioned with, or still attend, their faith community or who consider themselves atheist.
What Clients Are Saying...
"I had Santou for 16 sessions and she had helped get my thoughts and feelings out. I was able to express feelings openly as she made me feel more comfortable".
Santou was able to help me reconcile my challenges at work with the fact that I am not alone and there are many others going through similar challenges. This gave me hope which, at the time, I was very short of. You would be amazed how hope can help transform your physical, emotional and psychological state.
Let's discuss charting your course through grief to find the best path for you.
Your life-expanding path to growth begins when...
You contact me via email to arrange an assessment call to discuss if this paid service is for you to transform your challenges.
We create a customised plan using the S.T.E.E.R. approach to meet your emotional, mental, spiritual and practical needs.
I accompany you on your grief journey until you feel confident enough to continue that journey independently.
The incredible support I have received has helped me feel I am not alone, and I am truly grateful for and will always appreciate her care, attention and patience with me. >>> Click here to read the rest
Julie 1-to-1 Adult